Yes finally I am here. I did feel your energy around me since yesterday evening so I bet you have something to say again, well here we go Dad.
"First of all Bon I have to compliment you on how beautiful you went this week in the mountains. I was not there in person of course but I enormously enjoyed what you were presenting.
You are a beautiful instrument and your portals are getting clearer so to speak.
I mean, it must be the healthy vegetarian food; it is true you know it; you feel it in your body after all those years. It raises your vibration in the body and as you already said so clearly this week you feel more peaceful in the head.
And everything is about loving discipline. We are delighted how many people become aware of our presence. It is also great for us passed over people to help you a little though. Sometimes the problems in your life are created by your choices on Earth, although you choose them after life as well. But nevertheless, we want to help you to let it all go, just give it back to us. Actually, we on the other side are now a much more capable parent because we know more. On Earth, it is often the other way around and are the young children a lot wiser, because they are still in close contact with home. Now I can be much more of a parent then I was on earth. So many of us here have the desire to show you that experience and feeling. So being a father or a mother is seen as a much greater concept from this side."
Interesting Dad, again I did not see this topic coming. It is nice to see how you surprise me time and time again. Well, by the way you are very busy with inspiring people ...
"Yes Bon, That is what I did on earth I prefer to inspire people.
And indeed the time has come now that people speak up. We all know what the Truth is. The Truth makes your heart sing dear people. Beautiful Bon, last night and today the important issue is of forgiveness. Over here it can takes place in a fast way.
One look in the essence of the other and one look in yourself and you know. There is nothing left to forgive."
Dad, can I interrupt for a moment. Questions are suddenly coming up. Good, bad, duality. There are situations that are not always good, that’s what you told me earlier. Not everyone is in total bliss after this life so to say. When is it and when is it not so?
"In the world of love everything is possible. As I said before it is out of love that we manifest and make our choices.
You know, you just have found out yourself that you can make a choice if you bring your attention to it.
So in other words I am not going to dig deep into this topic.
The problem remains that with limited consciousness we explain messages in fear. And often there is fear in you.
When fear is taken over by love fear will disappear and only then can you have a clear look at the subject, do you understand?"
By not seeing the whole picture you see the forest at the bottom of the mountain as dark, dangerous and ominous. Do you know how wonderful the forest is if you're on top of the mountain."
Okay dad, I understand. That's maybe what I sometimes find hard in channelling there are often messages with warnings and people get scared.
"Bon, as we have told you before, there is no need from this side to do so, because messages like this are quite often misunderstood and may cause more problems anyway. We are love. This is your home."
Ah I like it Dad. You can make me very happy with your sometimes-brilliant phrases. I also notice that we'll jump from A to B and you often already answered a question that was on my mind.
"Yes Bon, I got your question about forgiveness and other subjects you were talking about. I follow it all and I also see it when you get it wrong. In that case it is good that you talk less and listen more".
Yes Dad, but whom am I listening to? You or Tinto (my guide)
"Bon it does not matter whom or what it is in that moment don’t think about it, it will distract you. Forgiveness on earth is difficult because we have stored so many memories in our body. I don’t have that problem being on this side. No memories that cause emotions in the body here.
These memories are stored as matter in our body and these feelings keep repeating themselves.
I always liked to write things down that was my salvation. It has given me a lot of comfort in uncomfortable times, places and events it always was my way to connect with the creator.
Yes you heard that right I said creator because the creator is in me, I am the creator, and the Creator in you is able to forgive everything. The physical body has trouble to accept that. As creator you are soft and tender to your body, which is very beneficial for your transformation. The creator in you has nothing to forgive and that you will discover when you realize that you are the creator itself. :)"
Yes but unfortunately we also create a lot of suffering.
"Yes that's right Bon, that’s what we do. Was this it? Yes that's it. Its a fact but if think a little different that’s fine too."
"Dear Bon its so lovely this co-writing is n’t it, it is important that you keep doing it. Especially now, yes I know it takes discipline but after some time it will give you more and more clarification. It is OK for now."
Thank you dad
"Hi Bon, great that you have some time. You know as you talked about it yourself, everything has a vibration and it is important that everybody becomes and stays aware of what vibration does to you. It directs your thoughts, feelings and physical body. That is why it is good to know what kind of vibration you receive and what kind you transmit.
And above all, to everyday be aware of your energy vibration. The unconscious mind carries a low vibration, which can cause negative feelings and thoughts this can have a direct result on the body and your surroundings. This is not new to you but it is easy to forget in everyday life.
Food, talking, music, pictures, what you read, think and with whom you socialize, everything has a direct effect on your inside and outside world. The energy vibrations of the people around you always influence you.
At this moment there are waves of low vibration in the air, fears so to say. They sit in the air and spread from human to human. That’s how you are infected with fear. Yes I say infected because often we are unconsciously influenced by it, later on it may manifest as flue. The bacteria entered the body with consequences. This requires attention and care. To get well again you sometimes just have to rest. Lots of tender loving care will do you well."
Yes Dad Indeed I know, indeed the problem lies in the fact that we quickly forget it all. That conscious state often disappears again. Then I am back on automatic pilot. Which I find quite irritating at times as well. And that’s when the bacteria has a chance to settle into my thoughts, feelings and body.
"Understandable Bon and completely recognizable. I believe that the times I wrote to the creator were the most clear and conscious moments. But even then the fear virus could get me down. Yes we know it all and yet."
Dad, is there an unconscious state at the other side?
"Yes Bon, there is but not in the state where I am in now.
Everything that is present on earth is also present here only here we exist in a higher vibration that of love and gratitude and once you vibrate on that level unconscious cannot exist. Love is again the most important means to remain in a conscious state. Be and are conscious of the love that you are.
The more you think about the light the more light you create in the body. That light has an effect on all fear viruses. I'm currently not in a state where there is fear because I am there where love prevails. But fear clearly exist just look at our planet Earth."
Oh Dad, I am just curious do you see the Earth from a spaceship like we see on pictures?
"Yes and when I saw that it too brought me a great sense of love and awe. It is so small but so important in the big picture just as we all are.
There is so much happening on Earth, just as in your own world many things are happening at the same time. It is just a magnificent spectacle to be enjoyed for many hours.
The universe is majestic in all its facets of greatness all the way into the depths of the smallest planets. Earth is incredibly beautiful and apart from that at the same time there are different worlds playing out on a soul level. My heart flows over from all this beauty and wonderment. It feels like a big playground."
How can we contribute or be more aware of our vibration that goes in and out.
Oh dad, sorry, I am not concentrating I am distracted and want to watch my phone or do something else like that, I even want to stop writing.
"Oh that’s a fine example of what is happening with your attention Bon huh?"
Yes indeed, I let myself to be distracted by something that I think I have to attend to or should respond to.
Step 1. Whatever distracts you keep it out of reach
Phones and computer screens have an unconsciousness vibration.
(sorry dad I am going to stop.... I cannot keep my attention on this.)
Step 2. Bon, breathe and put that smile back on your face.
Step 3. Just go ahead.
Step 4. Feel your heart, your vibration and raise it by thinking of love. Love, unconditional love.
Ah there is the trick love is often conditional it always wants something.
Love, free and without limitation, always giving. Feel the warmth in your heart."
Yes dad beautiful, I feel it and I feel that my attention is coming back. So, I was too much in my head and now I am back in my heart. There is a quote. The longest road we ever take in our lives is the road from the head to the heart.
"No it is certainly not the longest road, but the most important one. The maze in your thinking brain is a long; the way to the heart is just one breath away."
Okay dad' I am back on track again how do I keep this energy flow going?
"You cannot keep it going, you can only endlessly enjoy it in the moment. This will expand your moments of consciousness."
Enjoy yourself, dad is that your answer?
"Ha-ha Yes Bon, not very satisfying for you thinking brain is it? I am not for it either. But it does satisfy the heart.
Ok I will do it. I am going to enjoy the moments of pure consciousness and see how that goes. Thank you so much dear dad. Thanks for your wisdom and your love.
"Thank you so much for your dedication and your love Bon."
Hello dear dad, very quickly tomorrow when it is my birthday I will have a longer chat with you OK?
How are you? I had such a nice feeling in the car after I told you that it is such a great pity that I cannot hug you in the physical way anymore. You answered, how often does it happen that you embrace someone that is not present anyway. They are absent they are cold. And then you let me feel the feeling of how it is to be embraced by the heart. I am so grateful to be able to feel this. I also feel the need to tell everyone else how to learn or do this I truly believe that anyone is able to do this or is it not?
"Hi Dear Bon yes a lovely embrace by the heart. It is strange to embrace each other on earth like that. You feel the other, especially their love. It is so fulfilling and nourishing. Sometimes you notice that by an embrace your entire energy field literally starts to vibrate.
When you meet people that carry love in each cell of their body you also start to vibrate the colour, sound and beauty of love. Oh Bon, there are so many levels. It is an entire process all those levels of love of consciousness.
Yes Bon, really everyone can hear us, sense us and experience this, except the people who say they cannot. They believe they are to straight forward, too rational, that they are unable to receive anything. They believe that only a few people are able to receive these messages and that you have to practice this for a very long time."
OK Dad, convince them for once.
"Yes Bon, convincing someone is some sort of a fight, which is not going to work Bon. Curiosity and openness is the key. We have to make you curious and find a way to open you up to do something new. Something you do not know yet, that is easy to learn and easy to remember. Something that is different. Our thinking mind is always judging. The heart is always open to new learning and the soul is connected to that.
This type of communication is not always explainable. But never the less this always existed, people do not trust their instincts they think it is their imagination and therefore they do not give it any attention. When this type of communication occurs you feel the energy in your heart. The key is to keep practicing and gain more confidence. Keep asking about the how or why’s in life, use your imagination we were all dealt a great deal of that on our journey to Earth.
Bon. Why don’t you just explain how channelling this communication started for you?"
19 October (I got distracted its now 2 days later)
Okay dad, I will explain.
As a child I was daydreaming I was very good at fantasizing stories and in these stories I spoke with the main characters. Later I also had imaginary friends to play with. My imagination was huge so to say. When I went for the first time to the Arthur Findlay College in England if was allowed to do make contact with the other side and practice with a group. I thought oh well, you know what, I just make up a nice story. When somebody started to subscribe my father to me it was a great surprise, they told me how he looked like and mentioned some facts about his character. These were not daydreams as I thought they were. But later it turned out that many of my daydreams were facts after all. But then I started to doubt myself did I make up stories? I do not like to cheat others and myself so at a certain moment I took the decision that everything that is coming from my brain I will belief at first but afterwards will have a closer look and consideration.
Well dad, when I'm talking to you it often seems as if I am pretending until I reread what I have written. Regularly I think: well why did I not think of this. I find some sentences and quotes so brilliant.
Interesting also how Tinto (my guide) told me that the mind is able to receive and the heart is able to transmit. In other words, he told me that in fact there is very little thought coming from my mind .I also believe that a lot more people are able to receive these thoughts and messages if they pretend it at first. By pretending it is like opening the floodgates.
"Totally agree Bon, however on earth I was always busy with critical rational thinking and I had trouble to receive messages in the beginning.
Yes practice makes perfect. It is the rational brain that often intervenes and wants to understand what’s going on and likes an explanation for everything. The brain can make something beautiful and truthful into something ugly and disgusting ".
"I would like to ask anyone who reads this to sit down and start writing. What person that you love would you like to talk to from the unseen world . Just ask a question and pretend you hear him or her and then just start writing without thinking. When you are finished you can give an opinion. The best thing is to see what you have written down and feel to what extent it resonates with your heart, do you feel love."
Dad all messages are always coming back to love all answers actually are the same.
But today I heard a sad story about a pregnant lady who lost her 2 babies she was expecting twins. Why is that Dad? Why does it hit me so hard, why do we have to go trough such cruel lessons.
"Dear Bon. Yes for those people on earth it is a terrible loss. You welcome something and then you lose it again. That’s life on Earth. One hand is open to receive and the other hand is letting it go.
I fully understand the powerlessness and what is being felt. As a medical doctor on earth I often had to deal with these problems.
As a medical doctor I sometimes had to make a choice between life and dead. Meaning that you make the decision if they stay on earth or if they are going home. That is terribly difficult and sometimes heavy burden. I told you earlier that here on this side I take care of the souls that are born and also of the children that are coming home, I can tell you that both children are well taken care of.
It is rather complicated to explain exactly what is happening with children, a combination of physical problems and connection. I know Bon, sometimes it seems all so unfair and we feel so powerless with what is happening, but we created these choices as a soul. The only thing I can tell you is that both children are very grateful to their earthly parents and they will give them lasting love throughout their lives on Earth. It was not meant to be, it is not a good explanation but it is better this way. I know it sounds very weird regarding the loss. Never give up hope. They are here together."
Dad, but if they aren’t t even born yet they remember everything don’t they?
"Yes Bon, but here we are dealing with different levels of consciousness. The experiences that these souls gained are for their further development just as earthly parents experience growth. So these kids are now here and they grow in the world where I live now. Besides this, there are of course other levels of consciousness and different dimensions but that is not the point now. Many of us are with our thoughts with the mother and father of these 2 children and we try to send them lots of love and light through their clouds of sadness and hopelessness.
Yes Bon, we simply have to cope with mourning processes in our life. That is not what you would choose but at another level of consciousness you do understand.
And I realize instantly that this can cause an inner struggle. It’s bigger and more loving than it all seems."
You know dad, I do not want to offend anybody with these messages and the options we have about choices. Especially when we are experiencing the heavy and difficult side of life.
"It is as it is Bon, you meet all kinds of experiences and sometimes they seem very difficult but it always passes. Everything always passes Bon, also your joy, your grief, your hopelessness, your struggles; the only thing that is left is love. So try to feel and feed that in every situation to yourself and others. Only love. Love prevails. Everything else, especially your mind brings you further away from your heart.
And Bon, congratulations this is your first birthday without me, at least in matter. I'm incredibly proud of you and yes the coming year we will be working in and with love. That's your theme for the coming year. Good luck".
Thank you dad, speak soon.
Hello dad I feel that we have to continue with our messages don’t you think so? You may start. I have enough questions it is better if you begin.
"Yes Bon, thank you. This time we are here with many as you're aware. We have planted already a lot of seeds since we are doing this. Now we have to give them water and sunlight so they can grow. There is no need to do anything else just like all plants and animals we grow towards the light.
And that’s how we create a never-ending universe of light and love and wisdom and that’s how humanity creates consciousness. It keeps creating. We create an infinite universe. So beautiful Bon how manifesting and creating consciousness never really stops. Everything changes and transforms but nothing stops. Not even the smallest particles of matter stops it cannot disappear only transform.
Even if you can no longer see it with your eyes that doesn't mean it's gone. So strange that we think that life could be finite. We look no further than what we were taught we do not investigate further , it is a belief from an early age onwards.
The intention here on earth was, how to manifest in all its glory. This we have done and we still do."
Yes dad but we are not doing a good job.
"Because you do not look beyond your beliefs you will never understand how you are manifesting your power of creation."
Yes dad, but that’s far fetched.
"Yes Bon but you cannot speak of things that you do not understand and you cannot see more than your eyes can handle. That is called a limited view. You can also have a limited view of reality. You have no idea what lies beyond your beliefs.
Yes dad I do understand.
"Due trough your false picture of reality, your limited view, you think of the mountain and the forest below it. Just like you're a cell in your little toe and I try to tell you that you are part of a foot, leg and an entire body. You say am I part of a body, what a load of crap is that, because you cannot see it.
This view does not allow you to perceive the smallest particle in the bigger picture."
That’s nice dad.
"The problem with a cell is that it thinks it knows where it is and where it belongs. So a small cell believes that it actually doesn't matter and it feels miserable and as a result the cell get sick. This affects the cells around it and they no longer know who they are and to which part they belong, and so spread the misconception throughout the body and the body gets sick.
It can even fall apart and when that happens the cell changes .The cell shrivels up and dies. However, that cell that felt so miserable has no longer a hold onto anything, nothing more to identify itself with and at that moment consciousness wakes up again and that is when we grow. It is not a cell anymore, but what it is now?
An endless empty space stretches in front of it. It is a feeling of infinity there is no identification. Everything opens up. And then suddenly the cell is attracted to something and it feels like water. It is water; it is part of a vast ocean. But it actually feels as if it is a drop of water. And this story can go on forever Bon".
Okay dad, I know that there is something behind this what I currently do not understand, ha-ha or I do not yet identify with it, or do I just have to stop identifying with anything.
"Just try Bon; this is the most difficult part of the story because you are convinced that you are Bonnie.
Ha-ha, my brain is overloaded here dad because I am always looking for something to hold onto.
"OK I am back, I am no longer a cell but much larger.
I've found out that I am a part of something bigger and that everything is connected. It's fantastic to discover that you are much more than you thought you were, and that we always keep ourselves smaller than we really. That drop is the ocean and the ocean is water, fantastic. What a freedom. I learn an incredible amount and I am very curious about the physics and the inventions on Earth. On some levels they are already much further than I ever imagined. There's a lot more going on than you realize especially in the field of power generation, sustainability, food and physical health.
When the mass also starts to belief and think along these lines the
awareness process can suddenly change very quickly. It spreads like a virus, furiously fast. However at this moment the viruses of poverty, scarcity, lack and power are still in progress. However I can get lost in the vastness of it all but then I bring myself back to a small part of it all to have the illusion that I do understand."
OH dad is that at your side as well?
"Yes here too. Somehow we all have the need for guidance just imagine if you would let loose all would be a big adventure."
Yes dad, I can feel the excitement. But I like to keep things small, for my brain I mean; I will be able to understand it better. Just like my seeing, hearing, smelling and talking.
"Exactly Bon you are right, we cannot judge something or someone about whatever. With doing that, you think you is that one-drop while you really are water. Wonderment in your life leads you to new paths, new experiences and create new connections.
They were always there but now you look at them differently because you are open to it and you realise that you only are able to see and understand very small piece of it all. Through all those experiences you will start to see the bigger picture. So you can become the cell of the eye, mouth or nail. And eventually you will understand that you are a part of the entire body, you see the bigger picture."
Ah I have come full circle, that is beautiful, thank you so much.
Hi Dad good morning I have a question. To what extent are we really making mistakes or do they actually not exist, can you please explain. As I see it, there are mistakes but directly behind it is always a reason for doing so.
"Yes Bon, also good morning. Good question and you're hoping that I can answer. I would say yes, there are errors. In fact I have seen them happening often enough in life
There may be a feeling of an error in the moment but later when I am in contact with Tinto, your guide I get a different feeling. Are you sensing the same Bon?
Yes dad I can hear and feel him and know where he is located, he is not at the same place as you are, is it not dad?
"Yes that’s right Bon, I am still learning, playing around with my old belief systems, exploring new dimensions and, above all, still working to guide and support you. Tinto is a step ahead in consciousness Tinto has a broader view"
I notice that it is not easy for to communicate with the two of you at the same time. It is, as of I have to adjust my frequency to another dimension just like finding a clear radio station.
"Yes that’s right Bon; we are connected through our bodily and earthly experiences and the choices we made together.
Tinto, your own guide is connected with the depth of your soul and knows you better than anyone except the Creator itself. But since we all are part of the creator and we all are made in his likeness we know each other through and through.
I'm going to just tune into Tinto and ask about this question. (Tinto always talks to me in English and I rather do not translate because of the errors I can make)
"Dear child, we are here with many to support you and all of you. We are here to open the many ways of communication and communion with the spirit world, the world where you come from which is deep hidden in your soul memories. Yes in your worlds there can happen faults, as you indicate. But in the spirit world and when we see the whole picture there aren’t any. When you see a picture painted you’ll notice that the painter may make a mistake in drawing his line but in the end when you see the whole picture it belongs there and is integrated in the whole. So don’t worry about mistakes, it does happen but belongs to the whole."
Thank you dear Tinto, my heart warms by your words. How we have spoken so many years and now that my father is there I speak and ask him so many things. You have inspired me writing my book as you inspired our circle for so many years. Now that my father passed I seemed to hear you less.
"No worry my sweet child, I’ll always be with you but this is right on track. It is wonderful to see your communication with your father and you have no idea how many people you two are reaching. So that is right with the plan. When he doesn’t have an answer he will ask us and we will inspire you and him and all that you ask for.
He is more able to tell you about the stages he is going through and the purpose for that is to bring light to the idea you all have on earth about death. It will resolve a lot of fear and anguish about your passing to the spirit world, the passing to home."
Thank you both.
On Sunday we had our day meeting and received another beautiful trance message of Tinto about the light in our hearts and that it is only one a thought away. With our thinking we will bring our attention to the heart, the source of love and truth.
But with one thought you can also bring your attention further away from the heart forward from there. This is a fact.
It is up to you to make a wise choice and choose a thought that expands your consciousness a thought that you want to follow and brings you to your own heart.
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